For those in my generation who grew up with the ecclectic gender-bending record, Free To Be You and Me, you will appreciate this Raphaela annectode:

We were listening this afternoon to the Carol Channing piece entitled "Housework," essentially a diatribe against the media and  house cleaning, and Raphaela turned to me with an expression of extreme irritation and said, "But I don't want to buy any soap or detergent!"