tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5488433810039574602.post9153745525655072932..comments2023-10-28T02:50:16.786-07:00Comments on Jewish Single Mom By Choice: My Scarlett Letter Part IIIDochttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05261212450148255826noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5488433810039574602.post-12646565950384490032012-07-09T14:39:07.485-07:002012-07-09T14:39:07.485-07:00Yikes I would be very hesitant to leave RR in the ...Yikes I would be very hesitant to leave RR in the care of these people. Can you start her summer vacation early?Sylviahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07486295080524515985noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5488433810039574602.post-76261980450868944422012-07-09T11:57:18.185-07:002012-07-09T11:57:18.185-07:00I have seen more overstepping of bounds with other...I have seen more overstepping of bounds with other people's children in Israel than I ever saw in the US. Israelis routinely interfere with other people's kids. Why are they making such a big deal out of this?<br /><br />Also, you may have been too humble in your response. You should have also included details and background of "the incident". You should stand up for yourself. A humble apology and nothing else will make other parents assume you were totally in the wrong.Philohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02077376696343791699noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5488433810039574602.post-19302907682639186602012-07-09T11:36:31.306-07:002012-07-09T11:36:31.306-07:00Sounds like a whackadoodle gan and it's a good...Sounds like a whackadoodle gan and it's a good thing you're not R there next year. The gannenet's handling of the situation, including the child now and from day one, is completely and utterly inappropriate and would never happen in a regular gan. Sounds like a horrible situation. :( Hope it blows over quickly.Commenter Abbihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07753256568022159103noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5488433810039574602.post-1690522649145406362012-07-09T11:22:39.563-07:002012-07-09T11:22:39.563-07:00Good for you for taking the incident as reported b...Good for you for taking the incident as reported by the ganenet into your own hands and writing a public letter to all the parents. The ganenet's description is deliberately evasive and, as such, manipulates the situation into sounding much worse than it was. It sounded as if an unstable mother went off the wall tbh. This serves her well as it vindicates her OTT reactions. <br /><br />Now you have explained. Ignore any critism if it comes (you may be pleasantly surprised). If the parents do write back you must have a formula reply ready and only use that. E.g. Thank you for your reply, I believe the situation has been resolved.<br /><br />Hang in there for the last month (for RR's sake) and then don't look back. <br /><br />I'm not sayng you did exactly the right thing but it certainly wasn't such a crime to warrant this backlash. Good luck xxx.Rachel Selbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13113411205306116614noreply@blogger.com