tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5488433810039574602.post5934302193973463513..comments2023-10-28T02:50:16.786-07:00Comments on Jewish Single Mom By Choice: Feeling Grossly InadequateDochttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05261212450148255826noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5488433810039574602.post-560612738356511132009-11-23T03:33:34.802-08:002009-11-23T03:33:34.802-08:00With nursing, the clearest sign that your baby is ...With nursing, the clearest sign that your baby is getting enough if you seen plenty of wet diapers throughout the day and she seems to have a regular BM (once a day, once every two days, whatever her schedule is).<br /><br />For general mom support, I recommend getting in touch with Em l'em: http://emlem.org/ . They offer "visiting mom service". The volunteer comes to your house once a week for a chat, to see how you're doing, answer questions and just generally offer support. I volunteered with them and it was an incredible experience for me.Commenter Abbihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07753256568022159103noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5488433810039574602.post-10259379897793186862009-11-22T20:20:06.231-08:002009-11-22T20:20:06.231-08:00I was actually planning on contacting Mother in Is...I was actually planning on contacting Mother in Israel, and am also happy to report that since starting the pumping on Friday, I have already noticed a change in the quantity of milk. The other factor that gives me comfort is the fact that Raphaela is growing nicely, so I can't be starving her too much. In a way, I am more concerned about the fact that I am not eating as much as I feel I should, simply because more often than not, I don't have the time.Dochttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05261212450148255826noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5488433810039574602.post-61950114219176640772009-11-22T11:13:42.327-08:002009-11-22T11:13:42.327-08:00What Abbi said. You absolutely cannot tell what yo...What Abbi said. You absolutely cannot tell what your baby is eating from what you are pumping and it could be very well be a growth spurt. You have my number if you need it.mother in israelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13715046177293916034noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5488433810039574602.post-77082393831529493422009-11-22T01:16:38.668-08:002009-11-22T01:16:38.668-08:00Mother in Israel, another Israeli blogger, is an e...Mother in Israel, another Israeli blogger, is an excellent lactation consultant, as well as a great blogger. You should really get in contact with her with your concerns.<br /><br /><br />First and foremost, the fact that you can pump less then you thought you had absolutely doesn't mean that your daughter isn't getting enough to eat. Pumping is notoriously less efficient then a baby's actual feeding- meaning, Raphaela is just much better at getting milk out of you then a pump. Also, the YS pumps are usually pretty crappy. Avent Isis hand pumps are generally better at getting milk out then the YS electric pumps. <br /><br />Also, when did you pump? First thing in the morning? If you pump at any other time of the day, you will always get less milk (because for some reason, you make more milk at night). If you want to see how much you really have, pump first thing in the am on the side you haven't fed her on.<br /><br />Raphaela is six weeks- it sounds like she's going through a good old fashioned growth spurt- she's nursing a ton so you'll increase your milk supply.<br /><br />Please get in touch with MII and she can recommend a good lacatation consultant in your area.<br /><br />http://www.amotherinisrael.com/Commenter Abbihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07753256568022159103noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5488433810039574602.post-67907663032870720182009-11-21T23:13:28.454-08:002009-11-21T23:13:28.454-08:00hang in there; you're doing great. La Leche Le...hang in there; you're doing great. La Leche League will give you all sorts of info, lactation consultants, etc. In the meantime, breathe, relax, and know that doing your best is good enough. www.kellymom.com is a breast-feeding-type site. They have message boards where the granola moms hang out and stuff (I'm being a little facetious; but beware of militant mommies): http://forum.kellymom.net/s(b.)https://www.blogger.com/profile/08633383652906692253noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5488433810039574602.post-83464147897078910092009-11-21T15:06:20.579-08:002009-11-21T15:06:20.579-08:00according to
http://www.babycenter.com/0_lactose-...according to <br />http://www.babycenter.com/0_lactose-intolerance_1201464.bc<br /><br />True lactose intolerance usually shows up in the grade-school or teen years. While it's possible for symptoms to appear earlier, it's very unlikely that your baby is lactose intolerant.<br /><br />here is some info on how to increase milk production http://www.askdrsears.com/html/2/T026700.asp<br /><br />Giving your child some formula shows your love for her. if you nurse and give her formula perhaps that wil help her sleep better. also, perhaps with more sleep you will nurse better as well.koshergourmetmarthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18130278915757648096noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5488433810039574602.post-8763398149341781502009-11-21T05:22:41.308-08:002009-11-21T05:22:41.308-08:00Here's an FAQ from la leche league on improvin...Here's an FAQ from la leche league on improving your milk supply: <br /><br />http://www.llli.org/FAQ/increase.html<br /><br />they also have lactation consultants. I'm not sure if they have them in Israel, but it's an international association and you should totally check into it if you are having concerns- if they do have it in your country, then they have women who will come help you by teaching you how to increase your milk supply, helping with any other problems you have. <br /><br />Also I'm not sure where Raphaela was when you were pumping (have I mentioned how much I love her name?) but having the baby near you, crying, being able to smell her- all these things set off the hormones that produce milk, so if you were pumping and she was in a different room or something, you might not have had as much milk as if Raphaela was right under your nose, breastfeeding.<br /><br />Here's their FAQ on pumping: <br />http://www.llli.org/FAQ/pumpwork.html<br /><br />As for lactose intolerance...you suspect she has it already? It's true that most jews are lactose intolerant (up to 80% of ashkenazi jews) but that usually doesn't start to develop until kids are 4 or 5 years old, it's very rare for white/jewish children to develop lactose intolerance before that age. <br /><br />Hope some of this info is helpful! Good luck, and I think every new parent hits a stage where their baby drives them insane, whether they are a single parent or not. :)Abandoning Edenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12696116071749613265noreply@blogger.com